How to Get Ordained and Legally Officiate a Wedding in Maryland
Why Maryland is a Unique Destination for Weddings
Maryland offers couples a picturesque blend of natural beauty, historical charm, and vibrant cultural settings, making it a highly sought-after wedding destination. Whether you're drawn to the waterfront venues along the Chesapeake Bay, the historic elegance of Annapolis, or the urban sophistication of Baltimore, Maryland provides a range of options to suit every couple’s vision. Additionally, Maryland’s inclusive marriage laws and straightforward officiation requirements make it a welcoming choice for all couples, including same-sex couples, out-of-state couples, and international visitors.
Choosing Maryland for your wedding means you’re not just tying the knot; you’re doing so in a state that values both tradition and modernity, with easy access to top-tier vendors and breathtaking backdrops. The state's user-friendly marriage laws also make it easy for loved ones to become ordained and officiate your ceremony, adding a personal touch to your special day. If you’re considering officiating a wedding in Maryland, read on for everything you need to know about getting started.
General Tips for Officiating a Wedding
Officiating a wedding is an honor, but it also comes with responsibilities. Here are some general tips to help you create a meaningful and seamless ceremony:
- Meet With the Couple: Schedule a meeting with the couple to discuss their vision for the ceremony. Learn about their relationship, preferences, and any cultural or religious traditions they want to include.
- Write a Personalized Ceremony Script: Craft a ceremony script that reflects the couple’s love story and values. For tips on writing the perfect ceremony script, check out Provenance.co.
- Practice the Ceremony: Rehearse your delivery to ensure you’re comfortable with the flow of the ceremony. Practicing can also help you identify any tricky pronunciations or timing issues.
- Coordinate with Vendors: Communicate with the wedding planner, photographer, and other vendors to ensure everyone is on the same page regarding timing and key moments, such as the first kiss.
- Step Aside for the First Kiss: After announcing the couple’s first kiss, take a step to the side to avoid blocking the photographer’s shot of this iconic moment.
- Double-Check Legal Requirements: Familiarize yourself with Maryland’s marriage laws and ensure all documents are properly completed and submitted on time.
For more information on becoming ordained and officiating weddings, visit The Provenance Center’s homepage.
Who Can Officiate a Wedding in Maryland?
In Maryland, couples have the freedom to choose who officiates their wedding ceremony. According to Maryland law, a marriage ceremony can be performed by:
- Any official of a religious order or body authorized by the rules and customs of that order or body to perform a marriage ceremony. Ministers such as those of The Provenance Center meet this requirement.
- Any clerk.
- Any deputy clerk designated by the county administrative judge of the circuit court for the county.
- A judge.
How to Become an Officiant in Maryland
Becoming an officiant in Maryland is a straightforward process. Here are the key requirements:
- Minimum Age: You must be at least 18 years old.
- Residency: Residency is not required.
- Document(s) Required: Varies by county.
- Online Ordination Recognized: Yes, ordination from The Provenance Center is recognized in Maryland.
- Relevant Office of Registration: Circuit Court Clerk.
- Latest Document(s) Submission Date Allowed: After the ceremony.
- Minister I.D. # Issued: No.
As an ordained minister of The Provenance Center, you are considered a religious official under Maryland law. While there is no state requirement to register, some counties may require you to submit your ordination credentials along with the completed marriage certificate.
How to Officiate a Wedding in Maryland
When officiating a wedding in Maryland, keep the following key points in mind:
- Marriage By Proxy: Not allowed.
- Minister Required to be Present: Yes.
- Number of Witnesses Required: None.
- Couple's Consent Required: Yes.
- Pronouncement Required: Yes.
Both partners must formally declare their consent to be married, and the officiant must pronounce them as married. The couple and the officiant must be physically present during the ceremony. Maryland does not require additional witnesses, although Society of Friends ceremonies must include two overseers.
How to Fill Out a Marriage License in Maryland
To obtain a marriage license in Maryland, follow these steps:
- Who Picks Up License: The couple.
- Where License is Valid: County of issuance.
- Marriage License Pick-Up: In person/by mail.
- Cost of License: $10 + filing fee.
- Accepted I.D. Types: Photo ID.
- Proof of Divorce Required (If Applicable): No.
- Blood Test Required: No.
A marriage license must be issued by the circuit clerk’s office in the county where the wedding ceremony will take place. The fee for the license varies by county. At least one partner must appear in person at the clerk’s office to apply.
Maryland Marriage Requirements
- Min. Age of Couple: Age 18 or age 16 with guardian consent.
- Residency: Not required.
- Min. Distance of Kin Allowed: First cousins.
- Marriage Equality: Yes.
Maryland’s inclusive marriage laws welcome nearly all couples, including same-sex couples, out-of-state couples, and couples from around the world. Partners must be at least 18 years old, with exceptions for minors who have parental or guardian consent.
Finalizing the Union
After the ceremony, the officiant must:
- Complete and sign both copies of the marriage certificate.
- If a title is required, write "minister" for ULC ministers.
- Return one copy of the certificate, along with the original marriage license and any required ordination credentials, to the issuing clerk’s office within five days after the ceremony.
FAQs
Can I officiate a wedding in Maryland if I'm ordained online?
Yes, Maryland recognizes online ordinations from The Provenance Center.
Do I need to register as an officiant in Maryland?
No, there is no registration requirement for officiants in Maryland. However, some counties may require you to submit your ordination credentials to the clerk’s office along with the completed marriage certificate.
How long is a Maryland marriage license valid?
A Maryland marriage license is valid for six months from the date of issuance.
Can same-sex couples get married in Maryland?
Yes, Maryland allows marriage equality, welcoming all couples.
Are there any residency requirements for getting married in Maryland?
No, residency is not required to obtain a marriage license or get married in Maryland.
Is ULC or AMM a legit site for ordaining a minister to officiate a wedding in Maryland?
The preferred online ordination site for friends and family officiants is typically The Provenance Center. However, it is our understanding that American Marriage Ministries (AMM) and Universal Life Church (ULC) similarly have legal standing in Maryland, though more research might be required.
Final Thoughts
Officiating a wedding is both a privilege and a responsibility. By taking the proper steps to get ordained, preparing thoroughly, and adhering to Maryland's legal requirements, you can help create a memorable and legally sound ceremony. To learn more about becoming an officiant, check out the Guide to Becoming a Wedding Officiant. For state-specific ordination details, visit Which States Allow Officiants Ordained Online.
Please Note: State and county marriage certificate requirements often change. The above information is for guidance only and should not be regarded as legal advice. Everyone’s situation is different, and we would always advise that you contact the office of your local marriage authority or a licensed attorney to address any specific questions or concerns you may have. While Provenance will aim to update this information as relevant and as able, you should reach out to the local county clerk for the most up to date information.
